Written by Natasha Kiemel-Incorvaia, Registered Psychologist | Last updated: December 2025


Stress Management Online | Nervous System Regulation Through Telehealth


Stress impacts your body on all levels and can slowly erode your mental and physical resources. One of the most stressful things for the human brain is uncertainty and the not knowing of what is to come. However, chronic stress does take on many forms. Especially when managed alone. Working with a registered psychologist who has training in nervous system regulation may significantly improve your recovery. Check in and learn about effective recovery to improve your well-being and performance all from the comfort of your home or office.

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What is Stress?

Stress is a physiological and psychological response which occurs when you perceive a difference between the demands you are under and your ability to cope with them. As stress is subjective, what a person perceives as stressful will differ between individuals.

Research in psychology and neuroscience has shown that when confronted with a stressor - a term used to describe situations or things that trigger stress - our bodies undergo a series of changes. These can include:

  • Increased heart rate and blood pressure

  • Release of stress hormones like cortisol and adrenaline

  • Changes in brain activity, particularly in areas related to emotion and decision-making

While short-term stress can sometimes be beneficial, helping us stay alert and perform under pressure, prolonged or chronic stress can have negative effects on both physical and mental health. For many people, prolonged stress gradually develops into anxiety, as the nervous system becomes increasingly alert to potential threats. You can read more on our anxiety information page.

Understanding your personal stress triggers and responses is a crucial first step in developing effective stress management strategies. In the following sections, we'll explore evidence-based techniques to help you better manage stress and improve your overall well-being.

Developing an understanding of the systems impacted by chronic stress can not only be integral for ones well-being but also for long term health. This is where working with a qualified psychologist to help to look at the areas of your lifestyle contributing to your stress, and the symptoms accompanying them can be helpful as they can also assist you in holding yourself accountable. It is important to note that healing from chronic stress does take time and is a long term commitment but the benefits can certainly be worth the consistent effort.

When stress continues unmanaged over extended periods, it can progress into burnout, a state of physical and emotional exhaustion where rest alone doesn't restore your energy. If you're noticing signs of burnout, you can learn more on our motivation and burnout page.

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How Stress Affects Your Nervous System and Body

Understanding how stress impacts your entire system is crucial for managing it effectively. Stress affects far more than just your mind it activates multiple interconnected bodily systems.

Physiological impacts include:

  • Cardiovascular system: Increased heart rate, blood pressure, and risk of heart disease

  • Immune system: Reduced ability to fight infections

  • Digestive system: Increased risk of gastrointestinal issues

  • Nervous system: Heightened anxiety and altered mood regulation

  • Endocrine system: Prolonged elevation of stress hormones like cortisol and adrenaline

    These nervous system changes can manifest as anxiety, which is why stress and anxiety often occur together and benefit from integrated treatment approaches.

How your nervous system responds:

  • Stress can be adaptive: In certain situations, stress responses help us stay alert and respond to dangers.

  • Subjective experience: What one person finds stressful may not affect another similarly.

  • Cognitive influence: Our thoughts and interpretations significantly impact stress levels.

  • Physical manifestations: Stress involves bodily sensations like increased heart rate or muscle tension.

  • Perceived pressure: Stress arises when demands exceed our perceived ability to cope.

  • Cumulative effect: Unmanaged stress builds over time, potentially leading to chronic stress.

  • Systemic impact: Stress affects the nervous, endocrine, and immune systems simultaneously.
    Modern adaptations: Our survival-based stress response may not suit modern life; prolonged cortisol elevation can harm health.

Why working with a psychologist matters

Research has shown that effective stress management leads to improved overall health outcomes, better quality of life, and increased resilience. Working with a qualified registered psychologist helps you identify the areas of your lifestyle contributing to your stress and the symptoms accompanying them. This partnership provides accountability and support as you implement changes.

The goal isn't just regulation - it's flexibility. Many people think nervous system regulation means constant calm, but it's actually about building the capacity to respond flexibly to different situations. Through evidence-based techniques like sensorimotor psychotherapy, DBT, and vagus nerve strategies, you learn to regulate your nervous system in daily moments of stress and during more challenging situations. This means you develop tools to stay grounded during uncertainty, navigate difficult emotions, and respond from choice rather than reactivity.

It's important to note that healing from chronic stress takes time and is a long-term commitment. But with consistent effort and evidence-based support, the benefits are absolutely worth it

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Online Evidence-Based Stress Management Techniques

At Graciously You Psychological Services, we offer a range of evidence-based techniques for managing stress, all delivered online during telehealth appointments. Our psychologist Natasha's sessions are grounded in scientific research and tailored to meet individual needs.

Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT)

CBT helps identify and modify thought patterns and behaviours contributing to stress. Research has shown its effectiveness in reducing stress-related symptoms.

Sensorimotor Psychotherapy

Sensorimotor Psychotherapy integrates cognitive and somatic techniques to address the bodily effects of stress. It works directly with your nervous system through body awareness and vagus nerve techniques.

Mindfulness and Acceptance-Based Approaches

These combine mindfulness meditation with acceptance techniques to enhance present-moment awareness and help you observe stress without fighting it. Research shows these significantly reduce perceived stress levels and improve overall well-being.

DBT Distress Tolerance Skills

DBT teaches you how to tolerate difficult moments without letting them escalate. These practical tools help interrupt the stress cycle and build resilience.

ACT (Acceptance and Commitment Therapy)

ACT helps you accept difficult thoughts and feelings whilst committing to actions that align with your personal values. This creates meaningful change beyond symptom reduction.

For a deeper exploration of how these approaches work and which might be best for your specific stress patterns, see our FAQ section below.

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What are the Benefits of Online Stress Management

Telehealth psychology offers numerous advantages for managing stress effectively

Convenience

  • Access professional support from the comfort of your home or office, eliminating travel time and reducing additional stress.

Flexibility

  • Schedule sessions at times that best suit your lifestyle, including outside traditional office hours.

Continuity of Care

  • Maintain consistent therapy even when travel or other commitments might otherwise interrupt in-person sessions.

Familiar Environment

  • Engage in therapy from a space where you feel most comfortable, potentially enhancing openness and progress.

Reduced Stigma

  • Some individuals find it easier to seek help when they can do so privately from their own space.

Accessible Resources

  • Easily integrate recommended online tools and resources into your stress management routine.

Immediate Application

  • Practice stress management techniques in real-time within your daily environment for more effective integration.

Research has shown that telehealth psychology can be as effective as in-person therapy for many mental health concerns, including stress management. Our online sessions provide the same evidence-based, personalized care you would receive in-office, with the added benefits of convenience and accessibility.

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Frequently Asked Questions About Online Stress Management

How do I know if I need professional help for stress?

Stress is normal, but professional support helps when stress is consistently impacting your ability to function. Signs include persistent feelings of being overwhelmed, difficulty sleeping, changes in appetite, physical symptoms like headaches or muscle tension, and difficulty concentrating or managing daily tasks.

If stress is affecting your relationships, work performance, or ability to enjoy things you normally would, that's a signal therapy can help. Early intervention often prevents stress from developing into burnout or depression. You can learn more about these conditions on our motivation and burnout page and depression information page. You don't need to wait until things feel crisis-level to reach out.

How long does stress management therapy typically last?

This depends on your stress type, what's driving it, and which approaches we use. Rather than following a one-size-fits-all protocol, I assess your specific situation and draw on multiple evidence-based therapies.

For situational stress or mild overwhelm, you might notice shifts within 4 to 8 sessions using CBT and mindfulness techniques. Moderate stress typically needs 8 to 12 sessions for meaningful change, particularly when we're addressing underlying patterns through sensorimotor psychotherapy and nervous system regulation. Chronic or complex stress often benefits from longer-term support of 12 to 16+ sessions to build lasting resilience.

What makes my approach different is that I work with your nervous system directly, not just your thoughts. Stress lives in your body as tension, hypervigilance, and dysregulation. Sensorimotor psychotherapy combined with DBT distress tolerance skills and vagus nerve strategies helps your nervous system learn to regulate, which creates lasting change.

We'll discuss realistic timelines in your first session and keep checking how you're progressing so we can adjust if needed.

Can stress management techniques be learned online?

Absolutely. Online therapy for stress management is highly effective. Whilst many techniques can be found online, working with a registered psychologist through telehealth offers personalised instruction tailored to your specific stress patterns, professional accountability, and someone monitoring your progress.

Online sessions also give you flexibility, you can learn and practise stress management from your own space, which is often where stress shows up. Between sessions, you can practise techniques in real-life situations and bring feedback back to refine what's working for you.

What's the difference between stress and burnout?

Stress is your body's response to demands. It usually improves once the stressor changes or you get rest. Burnout is prolonged stress that has exhausted your mental and physical resources. Even when you rest, you don't recover. You feel numb, cynical, ineffective.

Stress often feels urgent and demanding. Burnout feels empty and hopeless. If you're experiencing persistent exhaustion that doesn't improve with time off, cynicism about things that mattered to you, or a sense of ineffectiveness, you may be burned out rather than just stressed.

Both respond to therapy, but they need different approaches. Learn more on our Motivation and Burnout page.

What therapies work best for stress management?

I draw on multiple evidence-based approaches depending on what's actually driving your stress.

CBT helps identify and shift unhelpful thought patterns and beliefs that fuel stress. Mindfulness and acceptance-based approaches help you observe stress without fighting it, which often reduces its grip. Sensorimotor psychotherapy works directly with your nervous system through body awareness and vagus nerve techniques. DBT distress tolerance skills teach you how to tolerate difficult moments without letting them escalate. ACT helps you reconnect with your values and respond to stress from there rather than from fear.

Rather than using one approach for everyone, I assess your situation and combine these techniques based on what you need. Most people benefit from a combination tailored to their specific stress patterns.

Do I need a diagnosis from my GP first?

No. You can book directly with me for an initial appointment. In your first session, we will explore your stress and what's causing it. If appropriate, we can coordinate with your GP.

You don't need a medical diagnosis to access psychology services. However, if you want Medicare rebates, your GP will need to create a Mental Health Care Plan, which is straightforward. Learn more on our Medicare page.

Ready to Take the Next Step?

If you're struggling with stress and would like professional support, we're here to help. Our psychologist, Natasha, is fully qualified and registered with the Psychology Board of Australia. She has extensive experience in supporting clients to improve their stress management skills.

Contact us to schedule a consultation and discuss how we can work together to develop effective stress management strategies tailored to your individual needs.

Remember, seeking help is a proactive step towards better well-being. With evidence-based support and tools, it's possible to develop effective stress management skills and improve your overall quality of life.

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